Thank you, Dad.

I’ve learned a great many valuable lessons from my father over the years, but the lesson which stands out most to me this evening is that to truly live you must care deeply about people. Unlike many people I’ve had the privilege of not only relating to my father as a child, but I’ve also …

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The Magnificence of You

There is a point of centering from which the magnificence of you can be expressed. It is always at hand, no matter how much pressure you're under, how complicated the situation you're in might be or how powerless you feel. The key, of course, is to know how to find that place. I've found my …

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Transforming the World

“Quand tu veux construire un bateau, ne commence pas par rassembler du bois, couper des planches et distribuer du travail, mais reveille au sein des hommes le desir de la mer grande et large. If you want to build a ship, don't drum up people together to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and …

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One at a Time

A long voyage is a series of small jaunts in succession. A large project is a collection of tasks in sequence. A long word, like sesquipedalian, is composed of word parts strung together. Realizing this, you need not fear the Brobdingnagian events in your life...or the big words, for that matter! Take a step back, …

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The Inextinguishable Flame

Anyone who has been the target of online bullying knows that in the new public forum created by the Internet knows the traditional social norms that typically govern in-person exchanges don't apply. Whereas in a face-to-face encounter most would act with a modicum of civility, the very same people might not hesitate to unleash a …

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Great Challenges

One of the great challenges of living in the world is finding a way to get all of your beliefs in line. Most people live their lives as a "house divided" and the internal conflict of competing and conflicting beliefs spills over constantly in their expression and function. Consider this example: A common dissonance in …

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Tilting at Windmills

While I'm on the topic of large organizations in need of rededication, I read yesterday that the United Nations accidentally started a cholera epidemic in Haiti a year-and-a-half ago that, so far, has claimed over 8,000 lives and infected some 647,000 others. The epidemic started when an inadequately screened group of soldiers were sent in …

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A Clean Slate

My father went to Catholic school and was raised in the Catholic faith. My mother was brought up in the Episcopalian faith, as were my brothers and I. We lived in a number of interesting places around the world growing up as Army brats and were exposed to a variety of religions and cultures. After …

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People of Worth

"Worthless people live only to eat and drink; people of worth eat and drink only to live." - Socrates I had dinner in the local hospital cafeteria last evening and couldn't help but notice how incredibly ill everyone looked at the tables around me...and these were the "healthy" visitors and staff! It seems to me …

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Life’s Vivifying Powers

"Nothing is secure but life, transition, the energizing spirit." - Ralph Waldo Emerson Be it a doorway, off-ramp or phase of life, every exit is an entrance into something else. There is just no escaping the continuity of life. You can turn your back on it, stop believing in its ability to course through your …

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