Sword or Shield

The feeling of vulnerability leads people to doing strange and counterproductive things. There seem to be two main camps into which people arrange themselves when they feel vulnerable: the first type takes up the sword and goes to battle while the second takes up a shield (or several) and hides.  Those who go on the …

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Sense of Self

"It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit." - Harry S. Truman How much of what you do, would you say is ego driven? One indicator of this is whether you await or actively seek the approbation of others when you accomplish things and then don't feel …

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The World’s Plans

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." - Ralph Waldo Emerson If there is one thing that is certain, it is that the world has plans for you. Most, if not all of the time, those plans have little to nothing to do …

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Your Attitude

One of my work associates was describing his approach to life the other day and he summed it up in a few simple, but profound words: "You see, it's very easy. I know that every morning when I wake up I have a choice to make: I can either establish that I am going to …

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Personal Best

It occurred to me today that the notion of your "personal best" applies to both being and doing.  In the sense of being, your highest and finest - your personal best - relates to letting the truth of you be revealed in its fullest possible glory. Achieving your personal best, on the other hand relates …

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Educated Nature

"Speak as educated nature suggests to you, and you will do well, but let it be educated and not raw, rude, uncultivated nature. Demosthenes took unbounded pains with his voice, and Cicero, who was naturally weak, made a long journey into Greece to correct his manner of speaking. With far nobler themes, let us not …

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The Moment

The moment you stop refining your mind, and heart, the moment you cease yielding more and more deeply to the wonderful angel within you, is the moment you stop living and start surviving. 

Listening to Others

"There are lessons to be learned by listening to others." - fortune cookie My youngest son kept the fortunes from our Chinese food dinner last night and this one in particular stood out to me as being worthy of further consideration. As a business manager and a father I am often in the position of …

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Inner Momentum

"It always seems impossible until it's done." ― Nelson Mandela My very best friend recently impressed me with a series of recent accomplishments that just months ago seemed like an endless list of monumental tasks. Even though I didn't have much of anything to do with the accomplishments, apart from providing moral support, I felt …

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